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Life in the South

Sunday, September 18, 2011

Happiness is Contagious

Saturday was the 3rd anniversary of my spinal cord surgery.  I actually had Tethered Cord Syndrome (google it for info) and was told I would end up paralyzed from the waist down if I didn't have the surgery.  Of course, the surgery was dangerous and could have paralyzed me instantly.  I had an 18 to 24 month recovery period.  It's been a long and hard road since that day three years ago.

What I have learned from my experience is life is precious and we all tend to take things and people for granted.  Life is short and we had better get up off our butts and live it to the fullest.  If we have a dream NOW is the time to pursue that dream because we are not getting any younger!  Life is too short to go around sad and all down in the dumps.  Get up every morning and put a smile on your face whether you feel like smiling or not.  I think 99% of the time that fake smile will become real by midday.  Always have a kind word and a smile for the people you come in contact with.  Whether it's the meter reader or your neighbor... smile and say something nice.  Happiness breeds happiness!  It is contagious, I promise!

I would bet that everyone who sees me on a regular basis thinks I am the happiest person in the world.  No one knows the heart break and difficult times I have experienced in my life.  If you knew, you would probably think I am insane for smiling all the time.  Have I ever felt like giving up?  I've come close but, have never let myself cross that line and I NEVER WILL!  I have too many things I want to do and to experience to let anything get me down!!

I will never live long enough to create and/or sew all the creations I have floating around in my head.  Since I was a young child I have loved to sing.  I forgot to sing for about 20 years and now I am relearning something I've always loved.  I can't tell you how much joy I get from sewing up something or making jewelry and giving it to someone special.  I can't tell you how good it feels to me to get up and sing a song during Karaoke and have people clap for me.  There is nothing better in the world than helping someone who is having a little trouble in their life or they are really down and out and you bring them a little happiness for a moment.

We never know what a smile or a little word of kindness can mean to a stranger or a friend!  I would love to hear from my readers.... tell me, do you smile on a regular basis?  Have you had someone smile and say kind words to you and instantly it made you feel better?

Nanette
The Crow's Nest

7 comments:

  1. You are so precious Nanette.  Life is precious!  I love you!

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  2. I am fairly new to your site (from CITR).  I can fully relate to your painful surgery with possible dire results.  I understand about living life to the fullest.  I spent three months in the hospital last year with Legionella pneumonia.  Through the prayers of family, friends and strangers I lived through it and made complete recovery.  Sing, sew live, laugh love and remember those who love and admire you for all you do.

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  3. Nan, I truly believe that we're "mirror images" of each other!! There's not a day that goes by that I don't try to "give back" to my friends. It blesses my heart and soul and I do it with un-conditional love and that makes it even more rewarding for me. I love you my long lost and now found friend!!!!!

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  4. I thought of this blog when I saw this video

      The power of a smile   :-)

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  5. Yep, you're smiling and happy even at 1am doing karaoke for folks that have had WAY too much to drink.   You ROCK!!

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  6. I have been trying for days to respond to each of your that posted comments!!  44, you also ROCK.  I probably wouldn't be able to keep smiling at 1pm with the drunks singing Karaoke if you didn't have my back!!  Mac, you are a smiling sweetheart!!  Cubybear, you are just so bloomin sweet I can hardly stand it!!  I love you so much!! Eunimoore from Chicken in the Road.... thank you so much for following my blog!!  It sounds like you are a trooper too!!  Keep on keeping on girl!!  Cemeadows..... what can I say... you make me love life even more!!  You are all great and I appreciate your comments so much!!

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